These recent two weeks have been amongst some of the best weeks I’ve had in a while.  Praise God for that!  He has been so good to me.  And He has also answered a few of my prayers.  Well, of course, God always answers our prayers.  Sometimes it’s a “yes,” sometimes it’s a “no,” and other times it’s a “wait.”  But, recently I’ve been able to see how several of my prayer requests have come to materialize.  And I want to publicly thank my Heavenly Father for His kindness and goodness to me.  I want to thank Him for His sovereign providence and provision over my life.  He knows my needs even before I ever knew of them myself.  He providentially sends different people into my life with the right temperaments and personalities that He knows would uplift me, encourage me, teach me, and edify me.  It is so wonderful to be around God’s people who love Him and His truths!  They challenge us in the faith.  They make us want to be a better and godlier Christian.  They set an example for us so we are reminded to set the bar higher in our walk with God.  And through their examples, they help us see how it is possible to live out the godly principles laid out in Scripture.  As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words.  And so it is when we see a living embodiment of the kind of character traits we strive to cultivate in ourselves.  That is so encouraging.

When I look back over the different stages of my life, I can now see in retrospect that God has always been there for me.  He is good to me not only when things are going well for me, for example, like this recent week.  He is good not only when He answers prayers with a “yes.”  He is good even when He said “no” because in His divine providence and omniscience, He knows what is best for me.  He was good even when times seemed so dry and hopeless in my life.  He uses even the seemingly “bad” things in my life for good and for the purpose of teaching me.  He uses bad times to draw me closer unto Him so I may rely upon Him more.  God used those times I walked through the deep valleys of life so that I may look up and behold the great heights of His love from below and experience the rich depths of His mercy.  He sovereignly orchestrates everything for His purpose (Romans 8:28).  I am so thankful, humbled, and grateful to know such a good, merciful, loving God Who is actively involved in the lives of His children, Who does all things according to the council of His will and His good pleasure, and for His own glory.  We serve an awesome God indeed.

Thank God for His new mercies every day.  I need to improve my time management and stewardship lately.  I want to be the best steward I could be with my time.  I want to live my life purposefully for God every hour of life.  And I know I’ve not been faithful in that lately.  But you know what?  Thank God it is never too late to repent.  Thank God it is never too late to get back up again.  I am thankful that God has been merciful in drawing me, in convicting me, and that He did not pass me over.

I read in Elisabeth Elliot’s book Passion and Purity that Jim Elliot used to write Scripture verses on little note cards so he could use his time wisely by memorizing Scripture while waiting in line for lunch at his school’s cafeteria.  Wow!  Talk about redeeming the time.  Rather than allowing minutes to pass idly by, he was thinking God’s thoughts after Him and etching God’s Word in his heart.  Jesus said that he who is faithful in little things is faithful in greater things as well.  “Take care of the pennies, and the pounds will take care of themselves.”  Harvey Newcomb said, “So if we take care of the moments, the hours will take care of themselves.”

I’ve also noticed remaining idle invites temptations which otherwise would not have entered into our life.  The old adage is “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”  And the wise Charles Spurgeon aptly said, “Some temptations come to the industrious, but all temptations attack the idle.”  I think of King David who committed the sin of adultery with Bathsheba, the wife of one of his most faithful servants Uriah, and how he fell into the temptation in the first place.  Incidentally I just finished reading the book of II Samuel recently.  Chapter 11 records for us what happened just prior to David’s sin:

In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel.  And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem.

It happened, late one afternoon, when David arose from his couch and was walking on the roof of the king’s house, that he saw from the roof a woman bathing; and the woman was very beautiful.  And David sent and inquired about the woman.  And one said, “Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?”  So David sent messengers and took her, and she came to him, and he lay with her.  (II Samuel 11:1-4)

Why did David remain at Jerusalem when there was a battle going on?  It was during “the time when kings go out to battle,” but instead David stayed at home.  If he had been in battle instead of wandering around walking on the roof of his house, he may not have seen Bathsheba bathing and found himself in such vulnerable situation.

Perhaps that’s why John Owen, “a Puritan of the Puritans,” wrote:

“The indulgence of one sins opens the door to further sins.  The indulgence of one sin diverts the soul from the use of those means by which all other sins should be resisted.”

When we let our guards down and give in to one temptation, it also becomes harder to resist the next one facing us.  Our mind is not as focused on obeying God.

I read an excellent chapter on the improvement of time in Harvey Newcomb’s book A Practical Directory for Young Christian Females that opens my eyes to see the huge loss in misusing even just one hour each day:

Our whole life is made up of moments.  A little calculation may startle those who carelessly trifle away small portions of time.  Suppose you waste only ten minutes at a time, six times in a day; this will make an hour.  This hour is subtracted from that portion of your time which might have been devoted to active employments.  Sleep, refreshment, and personal duties, generally occupy at least one half of the twenty-four hours.  You have, then, lost one-twelfth of the available portion of the day.  Suppose you live to the age of seventy years.  Take from this the first ten years of your life.  From the sixty remaining years, you will have thrown away five years!  These five years are taken from that portion of time which should have been employed in the cultivation of the mind, and in the practical duties of piety!

The common excuse for neglecting the improvement of the mind and the cultivation of personal piety, is the lack of time.  Were you to employ one half of this time in reading, at the rate of twenty pages an hour, you would be able to read more than eighteen thousand pages, or sixty volumes, of three hundred pages each.  If you employ the other half in devotional exercises, in addition to the time you would spend in this manner, upon the supposition that these five years are lost, what an influence will it have upon your personal piety!  Or, if you spend the whole of it in the active duties of Christian benevolence, how much good may you accomplish!  Think what you might do by employing five years in the undivided service of your Master.

Well, there are many beneficial projects that I need to do in my current station in life and to prepare myself for the next chapters of my life.  Projects that would help me in cultivating godly character.  To be an obedient disciple of Christ.  To be the kind of godly Christian woman God wants me to be.  To be a good daughter to my parents.  To be a good sister to my siblings.  To be an encouraging friend to my neighbors.  To be a good witness of Christ to others with my lips and actions.  To impact the lives of those whom God has placed within my sphere of influence.  To learn more of God and study the Scripture daily.  To spend time in daily communion each day with God in prayer.  To evaluate daily how I’ve lived out the day prior to retiring each night and reflect on necessary improvements.  To read more edifying books.  To find and exercise my spiritual gift(s) by serving faithfully in church or local Body of Christ.  To learn more skills on personal finances & investments that would be useful in my financial stewardship.  To make my home more efficient.  To learn or practice being a good “worker at home” now.  To learn more from my mother the feminine skills and domestic arts of homemaking.  To cultivate the gift of hospitality.  To exercise regularly in physical fitness and stay in shape.

I thank God for His provision over my life and that He never gives up on me.  Praise God that He gives a new beginning even when we stumble and fall.  I thank God for His forgiveness, His mercy, and that He chastises because He loves His children.  And last but not least, I thank God that I can trust in Him, by His mercy and grace, to enable me to live a life more pleasing before Him, because without Him I could never do it on my own.  Soli Deo gloria.

I heard there will be a debate between Ray Comfort and Kirk Cameron (both from The Way of the Master ministry) and two atheists that you can watch at ABC News Now on Wednesday May 9, 2007 at 2 P.M. EST, and then on Nightline at 11:35 P.M.  I’m not sure of the details but I think it’s not a televised program, but probably only watchable online through that link. 

Yes, you may notice Kirk Cameron as the actor of Mike Seaver from Growing Pains.  I’m not quite sure what to expect of the debate, but if you’re interested, there’s more info on the debate here.

I read a news article online yesterday that says a stay-at-home mother’s work worth is $138,095 a year.  Yes, we all know that we can never put a price tag on a mother since her labor of love is priceless, but I thought it’s an interesting article, though. :)  I don’t know the degree of the accuracy of the figure, but I still think motherhood is the most under-rated, under-appreciated, and under-paid profession a woman can have.  Yes, I do think being a mother is “real work” (especially with a child like me during my growing up years, just kidding, okay, maybe partly true ).  That’s why I’m so thankful to my mother who was a stay-at-home homemaker during most of my growing up years.

Of course, I am aware there may be those who would say being a mother is not a “real job.”  For example, Mrs. Teresa Heinz-Kerry, the wife of John Kerry.  Back in July 2004 during the Presidential campaign, Mrs. Kerry was asked about the differences between the First Lady, Laura Bush, and herself in an interview published in the USA Today.  This was her answer:

Q: You’d be different from Laura Bush?

A: “Well, you know, I don’t know Laura Bush. But she seems to be calm, and she has a sparkle in her eye, which is good.  But I don’t know that she’s ever had a real job — I mean, since she’s been grown up.  So her experience and her validation comes from important things, but different things.

“And I’m older, and my validation of what I do and what I believe and my experience is a little bit bigger — because I’m older, and I’ve had different experiences.  And it’s not a criticism of her.  It’s just, you know, what life is about.”

Mmm, Laura Bush never had a real job?  As I understood, Mrs. Bush had been a librarian and schoolteacher for years.  Last time I checked, those are real jobs?  And, by whose standards is her validation of what she does a little bigger?

Well, in all fairness to Mrs. Kerry, she did “apologize” to Mrs. Bush later on:

“I had forgotten that Mrs. Bush had worked as a schoolteacher and librarian, and there couldn’t be a more important job than teaching our children,” Heinz Kerry said in a statement.  “As someone who has been both a full-time mom and full-time in the workforce, I know we all have valuable experiences that shape who we are.  I appreciate and honor Mrs. Bush’s service to the country as First Lady, and am sincerely sorry I had not remembered her important work in the past.”

Unfortunately, though, I’m not sure that Mrs. Kerry really cleared things up.  Her comment only made it worse, because she left out the very important real job of a mother.  Clearly Mrs. Kerry knew that Laura Bush was a stay-at-home mother, working from home and rearing her twin daughters.  Mrs. Kerry was only reinforcing society’s values that place career first before family.  A woman working outside the home seems to be now a form of validation of a woman’s status.  Mrs. Bush’s decision to be a helpmeet to her husband and a full-time mother is a noble choice and a high calling, and one that should be celebrated and not denigrated.  She is a keeper at home and a worker at home as the Bible teaches to be:

“…so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.” (Titus 2:4-5)

I’ve thought of this just a bit before.  I mean, if God ever calls me to be a wife and mother one day, I just don’t know if I could ever be as excited about working for some boss to prosper his business than I do about working at home, serving my own family, and making God’s business prosper.  Now, before anyone asks me what year this is , seriously, though, the other way around doesn’t really make much sense to me.  I understand there are many women out there who want to be there for their children instead of working outside the home, but due to extenuating circumstances they work temporarily.  And I understand that and sympathize with them.  But where at all possible, I’d want to be there for my (future) children and raise them instead of putting them in some day-care-centers.  I’d want to be there for them to hear (and answer) their funny little questions, have them run to me when they’re hurt and kiss them better, instill the right values in them, and teach them about the One Who loves them and Who is sovereign in their lives.  I wouldn’t want to absolve my responsibility by relegating it to others.  I honestly don’t believe anyone else would do a better job being paid to do something that a mother is willing to do for free.

A career woman writes:

“I am in my early thirties, single, a corporate officer, and executive.  I serve on three boards of directors, one a national organization.  With all my customer contacts, employee supervision, and peer contact, my total influence doesn’t constitute a drop in the bucket to what a wife and mother contributes to society.  She directly affects the mental outlook of her husband and children.  She has the power to make her home heaven or hell.  That’s what I call woman power.”

Well, let me close by quoting what a lady named Diane wrote when asked to describe her work.  I thought it’s funny but true:

“I had a continuing program of research (what mother doesn’t?), in the laboratory and in the field (also known as indoors and out).  I worked for my masters (the whole flippin’ family), and received five credits (three sons and two daughters).  Of course, the job was of the most demanding in the humanities (any mother care to disagree?), and I often worked 14 hours a day (24 is more like it).  But the job was more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.  Commonly known as Stay-at-Home-Mom.”

Spurgeon shows with his ready humor that it’s possible for the highest spirituality to be exemplified in the brightest and cheeriest character.  Well, I hope none of you is tired of hearing me talk about Spurgeon, ’cause I’d really like to share with you again more funny poignant things I read of Spurgeon…

On Marriage

The earliest marriage service conducted by Mr. Spurgeon that was recorded was that of Pastor T. W. Medhurst and his first wife, Miss M. A. Cranfield.  Mr. Spurgeon announced, at the commencement of the proceedings, that he was not going to perform the ceremony as if he were reading the burial service, nor as if he were about to thrust his two young friends into prison, and make their feet fast in the socks.  He also said that he hoped their wedded life would not be like the Church of England marriage service, which begins with “Dearly-beloved” and ends with “amazement.” (ha ha ha ha! )  He trusted that they would both be “dearly-beloved” not only at the beginning of their united career, but all through the end, and then for ever and ever; and that, while their sorrows would be mutually shared, their joys would all be multiplied.  In expounding Ephesians 5:23, the Pastor, addressing the bride, said:

“According to the teaching of the apostle, ‘The husband is the head of the wife.’  Don’t you try to be the head; but you be the neck, then you can turn the head whichever way you like.”

Ha ha ha :)  As a lady myself, let me say a hearty ”Amen” to that.

At another marriage service, many years afterwards, Mr. Spurgeon, commenting on the same passage, said to the bridegroom, another of “our own men”:

My dear friend, don’t you begin to feel proud because Paul says that the husband is the head of the wife.  Solomon says that ‘a virtuous woman is a crown to her husband;’ and the crown is the top of the head.  Still, the governing faculty should rest with the head; and the family will never be ordered aright unless we each keep our proper place.

On Infant Baptism

Dr. John Campbell was once in a second-hand bookseller’s shop with Mr. Spurgeon, and, pointing to Thorn on Infant Baptism, he said, “There is ‘a thorn in the flesh’ for you.”  Mr. Spurgeon at once replied, “Finish the quotation, my brother,—’the messenger of Satan to buffet me.’”

Witticism

A lady in Worcestershire, writing to Mrs. Spurgeon concerning a service at Dunnington, near Evesham, says:  “Mr. Spurgeon shook hands with seventy members of one family, named Bomford, who had gone to hear him.  One of our deacons, a Mr. Alway, was at the same time introduced to him; and, in his own inimitable and ready way, he exclaimed, ‘Rejoice in the Lord, Alway!’”

At one of the meetings when contributions for the new Tabernacle were brought in, the names of Knight and Duke were read out from the list of subscribers, whereupon Mr. Spurgeon said, “Really, we are in grand company with a knight and a duke!”  Presently, “Mr. King, five shillings,” was reported, when the Pastor exclaimed, “Why, the king has actually given his crown!  What a liberal monarch!”  Directly afterwards, it was announced that Mr. Pig had contributed a guinea. “That,” said Mr. Spurgeon,” is a guinea-pig.”

I love Charles Spurgeon!  Those who know me know how much I love his writings and sermons.  He’s so witty, funny, intelligent, and inspirational.  I almost never fail to walk away feeling encouraged each time I read his writings.  His sermons are often sprinkled with witty remarks that make me laugh because they’re both poignant and funny at the same time.  His force and delivery enhance the beauty of his message.  Oh, that there’s a dozen preachers like him today!  After reading more of his biography, I came to love not only his  great preaching ability, but also of the character and personality that Charles Spurgeon was.  He must’ve been such a colorful personality.  (You can read about his courtship story with his wife, Susannah, from one of my previous entries if you like.)  Here are some funny quotes I found memorable from Spurgeon…

On Controversies

Charles Spurgeon was frequently embroiled in religious controversies.  “I hear you are in hot water again,” a friend declared one day.  “I’m not the one in hot water,” Spurgeon retorted.  “The other fellows are.  I’m the man who makes the water boil.”

On Criticism

Spurgeon was well-known as a cigar smoker.  In his days they didn’t know about the harmful effects of excessive smoking, and for him it was mostly for medicinal reasons.  He said he didn’t see anything wrong with smoking cigars as long as it wasn’t in excess.  He said, “I’ll quit if I find myself smoking too much.”  When asked what “too much” was, he replied, “Two at a time, of course.”

“I’m going home, and smoking a cigar to the glory of God”. 

On agnosticism

A gentleman said to Spurgeon one day, “Ah! Mr. Spurgeon, I don’t agree with you about religion; I am an agnostic.”   “Yes!” Spurgeon replied, “that is a Greek word, and the exact equivalent is ignoramus; if you like to claim that title, you are quite welcome to.”

On His Age

Spurgeon had the gift of preaching even as a teenager at the age of 15 or 16.  This is an account of his very first effort at preaching in the pulpit.  The moment he finished preaching an elderly woman cried out, “Bless your heart, how old are you?”  Spurgeon replied that there should be no interruptions in the service.  But as soon as the last hymn was sung she burst forth again with her question, and this time he replied, “I am under sixty.”  “Yes, and under sixteen!” the lady replied.  Her enthusiasm was felt to the rest of the congregation, and they demanded that Spurgeon comes back and preach to them again as soon as possible. 

Ha ha ha… :)  That’s similar to what I’d say when someone asks for my age:  “I am under sixty.” :D  Mmm, well… okay, I am under thirty, but that’s as specific as I’m willing to reveal.

On Punctuality

Everyone who was acquainted with Spurgeon knows how scrupulously punctual he was at all services and meetings.  Unless something very unusual had detained him, he was ready to commerce either the worship or the business proceedings at the exact minute fixed.  In the New Park Street days, he was unavoidably late on one occasion when he was to meet the venerable deacons.  One of them, the most pompous of the whole company, who was himself noted for his punctuality, pulled out his watch, and held it up reproachfully before the young minister.  Looking at it in a critical fashion, Mr. Spurgeon said, “Yes; it’s a very good watch, I have no doubt, but it is rather old fashioned, isn’t it?”

On the Ministers’ Wives 

Today I just read some good quotes by Spurgeon regarding pastor’s wives.  I thought I’ll throw them in here as well because they’re so true.  Growing up, I’ve always gathered that people have the notion a pastor’s wife is supposed to do certain things at church; they’re expected to teach Sunday school, or lead the choir, or be the church’s organist or pianist, etc. (even though these may not necessarily correspond to their giftings).  But why this non-verbal expectation?  When in reality, a pastor’s wife’s primary role, first and foremost, just like any other married Christian ladies, is to be a helpmeet to her husband.  Not as the church’s worker, or the church’s pianist, or choir leader.  It’s nice if they do these things according to their gifts, but I don’t think we must take it for granted that they should be involved in that if they choose not to.  I have a lot of respect for pastor’s wives.  I think it’s a very special and honorable position.  I’m sure it’s not an easy position because regrettably people often subject them to unreasonable scrutiny.  Spurgeon gave good insights of the minister’s wives:

Churches do not give a married minister two salaries, one for the husband and the other for the wife; but, in many cases, they look for the services of the wife, whether they pay for them or not.  The Pastor’s wife is expected to know everything about the church, and in another sense she is to know nothing of it; and she is equally blamed by some people whether she knows everything or nothing.  Her duties consist in being always at home to attend to her husband and her family, and being always out, visiting other people, and doing all sorts of things for the whole church!  Well, of course, that is impossible; she cannot be at everybody’s beck and call, and she cannot expect to please everybody. Her husband cannot do that, and I think he is very foolish if he tries to do it; and I am certain that, as the husband cannot please everybody, neither can the wife.  There will be sure to be somebody or other who will be displeased, especially if that somebody had herself half hoped to be the minister’s wife!  Difficulties arise continually in the best-regulated churches; and the position of the minister’s wife is always a very trying one. Still, I think that: if I was a Christian young woman, I would marry a Christian minister if I could, because there is an opportunity of doing so much good in helping him in his service for Christ.

And here is a beautiful description of the minister’s wife:

It is a great assistance to the cause of God to keep the minister himself in good order for his work.  It is his wife’s duty to see that he is not uncomfortable at home; for, if everything there is happy, and free from care, he can give all his thoughts to his preparation for the pulpit; and the godly woman, who thus helps her husband to preach better, is herself a preacher though she never speaks in public, and she becomes to the highest degree useful to that portion of the Church of Christ which is committed to her husband’s charge.

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Whom have I in heaven but You?
And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides You.

My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

~ Psalm 73:25-26

Well, sometime ago my friend, Don, has written a blog entry titled How to Attract an Asian Man: A Pedantic Guide and the results have been phenomenal.  I am told that lots of people have read his guide and countless people have benefited as a result.  Be sure to click on the link to read his guide for free, or even if you don’t need it, you could always use some laughter for the day.

But anyway, let me spill some of the secrets here, though.  According to Don (who is an Asian guy), in addition to making cutesy smiles and giggling a lot, having Hello Kitty products is now the new attraction for the 21st century Asian man.  Yes, buy anything with Hello Kitty on it.  A Hello Kitty cell phone cover is a must.  You may want to read his guide in order to understand this.

A Hello Kitty camera.  Oh, this one will come in handy when you practice Don’s third advice on making those “bunny ears” (you’ll know what I mean when you read his guide):

Hello Kitty bedding.  What could be better than two happy Hello Kitty faces greeting you in the morning?

And… who can resist strumming on this cute pink Hello Kitty electric guitar.  Come on, you know you want it.

And of course, introducing the new Hello Kitty Platinum Plus® Visa® credit card.  Don’t leave home without it!

Okay, this is an aside.  But I thought this picture is so funny.  Since we all know that Asians just looove all things Hello Kitty, what do you get when you combine an Asian geek’s love for Star Wars with an Asian’s love for Hello Kitty?  You get Hello Vader…

I’ve been following my daily Bible reading program recently and it has been such a blessing for me.  I used to read through the Bible more in a random fashion before, but I think having a systematic plan of Bible reading each day has given me more focus and helped me to be more consistent in the habit.

Well, I am going through the book of I Samuel right now from the Old Testament.  And it talks about the reign of King Saul over Israel.  Saul was an ungodly king who did not fear God.  And in chapter 15, we find that Samuel rebukes Saul for his disobedience against God’s commands.  I found there are a few things that I could learn from Saul from this chapter on the subject of repentance.  But it wasn’t so much a lesson on how to repent as it is a lesson in how not to repent.  There are three ways that I find this passage is teaching me about the difference between true repentance versus false repentance:

1.  Saul did not acknowledge that ultimately his sin is against God, and God alone.

Saul said to Samuel, “I have sinned, for I have transgressed the commandment of the Lord and your words, because I feared the people and obeyed their voice.”  (I Samuel 15:24)

At first glance, it appears as if Saul had a genuine repentance.  He confessed that he has sinned.  But upon a second reading, though, I noticed that he didn’t just say that he sinned against God only, but also against Samuel’s words.  Now, I was pondering, why did he say that?  Why did he say he sinned against Samuel’s words?  I mean, his response was far different from David’s confession when David prayed in brokenness to God and acknowledged, “Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight.” (Psalm 51:4)  David understood that ultimately it was against God’s law that he has transgressed.  It was not men’s words against whom he has offended, but God.  It was God’s commands.

Well, I believe that Saul said what he did because he knew that Samuel was angry with him.  He knew that he had lost favor in Samuel’s eyes.  And in trying to regain his favor, he unsuccessfuly attempted to appeal to Samuel’s vanity and manipulatively by saying he has transgressed against Samuel’s words, implying that they are on equal authority with God’s commands.

2.  Saul did not acknowledge only God has power to forgive sins.

“Now therefore, please pardon my sin and return with me that I may worship the Lord.” (I Sam. 15:25)

Saul was asking Samuel for pardon as if Samuel can pardon his sin.  Yet, it was God alone Whom Saul had sinned, and only God ultimately has the power to pardon sins.  But Saul did not come to God first and foremost.  Instead of kneeling before the holy God in private and in heartfelt contrition over his sin, Saul went to Samuel.  I think that, likewise, sometimes we do the same thing when we are more concerned about reconciling with men than we are with God.  We make peace with the church and ministers.  And we regain favor in their eyes.  Or we make peace with our neighbors and friends.  But we do not make peace with God, unto Whom we ultimately sin against.  And by this, Saul shows that his is not a true repentance.

3.  Saul was grieved not because of his sin, but only for of its consequences.

Then he said, “I have sinned; yet honor me now before the elders of my people and before Israel, and return with me, that I may bow before the Lord your God.” (I Sam. 15:30)

This is a sign of hypocrisy.  Saul wanted to look good before the people of Israel despite having failed in leading them according to God’s will.  Thomas Watson is one of my favorite Puritan writers and he said it so aptly when he describes true repentance:  “Godly sorrow shows itself to be ingenuous because when a Christian knows that he is out of the gun-shot of hell and shall never be damned, yet still he grieves for sinning against that free grace which has pardoned him.”

Here we find that Saul didn’t seem to grieve over his sin.  He was more concerned at how the Israelites would perceive him.  He wanted to look good before the people of Israel by having Samuel in his presence, because Samuel’s absence would’ve been a sign of God’s disfavor toward Saul before the people.  He wanted the prophet of God, Samuel, to assist him in public thanksgiving before the Israelites for the victory against the Amalekites.  He did not want the Israelites to think that the God of Samuel had left him.  So even after having sinned, he was more concerned with his own public image than he was with his private image before almighty God.  He grieved over his public image more than the fact that he has seriously offended God.

There was no sign of tearful repentance on Saul’s part.  There is no brokenness over his sin.  I love the following quote by Thomas Watson when he makes this analogy between true repentance vs. false repentance:

Faith lives in a broken heart.  He cried out with tears, “Lord, I believe.”  True faith is always in a heart bruised for sin. They, therefore, whose hearts were never touched for sin, have no faith. If a physician should tell us there was a herb that would help us against all infections, but it always grows in a watery place; if we should see a herb like it in colour, leaf, smell, blossom, but growing upon a rock, we should conclude that it was the wrong herb. So saving faith always grows in a heart humbled for sin, in a weeping eye and a tearful conscience.

Lord, please grant us a true faith.  Please grant me a contrite heart that is broken over my sins.  Help me to truly hate my sins.  Help me to view sin the way You do in all of its heinousness.  Help me to have a hatred for sin, a dread of sin, and a love for holiness.